We almost cringe when we read Paul speaking this way (almost foolishly, as he admits) to the Corinthians. Paul should not have to beg or plead for the love and loyalty of the Corinthians. But, such language by Paul proves the depth of his love and care for the Corinthians.
We can identify with Paul. Sometimes, we have to beg, plead, and speak foolishly to our own children to get them to trust us and follow our advice.
“Therefore, knowing the fear of the Lord, we persuade men, but we are made manifest to God; and I hope that we are made manifest also in your consciences. We are not again commending ourselves to you but are giving you an occasion to be proud of us, so that you will have an answer for those who take pride in appearance and not in heart. For if we are beside ourselves, it is for God; if we are of sound mind, it is for you. For the love of Christ controls us, having concluded this, that one died for all, therefore all died; and He died for all, so that they who live might no longer live for themselves, but for Him who died and rose again on their behalf.” 2 Corinthians 5:11-15.
We sense that there was little or nothing that the Corinthians did to deserve Paul’s love. There is little or nothing that a newborn baby does to deserve their parents’ immediate love. There is absolutely nothing that we did to deserve Christ’s love. (Remember “Total Depravity”, the “T” of “TULIP”.)
But, Paul loved the Corinthians. Parents immediately love their children from their birth (and parents continue to love their children as long as the parents live). Christ loves us.
Such love makes us talk crazy at times. But, such love also makes us sacrifice for their good beyond all reason as well (crazy too). “For the love of Christ controls us”.
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